Social Networks or How I Learned to Stop Whining and Utilise Them Effectively

As most of you know, I've had a disposition with Social Networks for roughly three years. In the past, I have quit Myspace twice and have accused Social Networks for the advancement of social retardation, shallow friendships and a whole heck of a lot of incriminating photos. You can honestly know everything about everyone at all times and ironically, nobody really cares about this and actually, in turn, wholeheartedly accepts it.

Well, despite these things, I have decided to run a few experiments. I am going to try and create more of business like image of myself on Facebook, and if that works, eventually MySpace (though low priority). In all reality it can't be too bad of an idea. Eventually everyone my age will be in the work force and yet, still on these networks. I'd only assume for a lot of my "era", Facebook will be a fairly tangible harbor of potential business. All the needed information is there. You can basically make your facebook page a portfolio containing information such as where you went to school, where you worked, what your skill set is, examples of your work and a list of references. Mix that in with a little interaction and you could probably find yourself with a couple new business partners and a handful of clients. Unfortunately, however, if you were a little wild in your college years, you may have to do a little cleanup in order to look presentable.

Lets think about it a little more. Microsoft paid $240 million in order to get a simple 1.6 percent stake in the $15 billion dollar company, Facebook. Don't tell me Social Networks are useless if Microsoft is dropping the top dollar for a little bite. There must be some form of money in there and doggonit, I wanna find it.

So take it as it is. I'm going to try for a more "professional" venture and see who I can meet from there.


Tags: Technology, Social Networks, Facebook, Myspace



Unsocial Networking

I'm not sure I like where the Internet is going.

This social network stuff has ultimately been a double-edged sword in my mind. They are absolutely convenient and fun. It's an easy way to keep people up to date on your life, fill your calendar with events your friends are going to, get the skinny about your favourite bands, just about any information you could want. I remember in late 2003, when I first joined MySpace, I was excited. It was a great way to share photos and information for a person with little to no experience in web development. This finally meant all of my friends would be able to join me online. Wonderful?

Long before any sort of talk about social networks, beginning around 1998, I kept consistent with my own website, shaped with my own blood and tears. I kept everyone close to me up to date with my life, utilising blogs, pictures and graphics. It was truly exciting and very rewarding to be able to do that. It was fun because I was unique and it was something not everyone could have. I was also doing it long before any of this was coined as "Web 2.0". A certain skill set was required to have a fully functioning website.

Come around 2005, inevitably, everyone I knew owned a MySpace account and/or a Facebook account. At the time, it was really nice to see everyone online. I could keep tabs with close friends that were away for the school year, have a full calendar of events I could choose whether or not to go, get the latest gossip on who's going out. It's amazing how much I could know about friends, family, acquaintances and strangers without even speaking a word.

Let me ask this... How much information is too much information? Facebook is the king grapevine report with their mini-feed. There is so much information that goes through that thing that I'd have rather learned from the source directly. There's also a lot of information I would rather not have known at all. A said this to B, C is sad, D is flying to X, E broke up with F, G is interested in men, H added "Titanic" to their movies, J joined the group, "Pray for 35W survivors", K joined the group, "Minneapolis Bridge Collapse", L is now a Zombie.... The list of personal and stupid information goes on for gigabytes upon gigabytes. The Rumor Mill does not run dry.

I swear, it's going to make our world socially retarded. Every conversation will be some form of gossip, or every coffee-talk will start with "So I saw on Facebook you blah blah blah..." Most casual pictures are already ruined as they are seldom printed (which are great conversation pieces) and always whored on the Internet to tally up a couple comments. Who knows, People may forget how to carry an authentic conversation all together. It will make you wonder who you are even close to.

I had a direction I was going with this, but I'm drawing a blank. I guess I'll end on the basis that I am going to spend less time scrounging around Social Networks and spend more time connecting with people on a more personal basis. I am also going to elaborate on my own website. I got the skills, might as well use em'!

Tags: Archive_Blogger, Facebook, Internet, Myspace, Social Networks, Websites, Technology



Jesse Connors! Quit MySpace.

This blog is more for the Christian community out there, and any discussion (Believer or no) that may stem off this will be much appreciated. Have you ever witnessed a fellow Christian who is "Fighting the fight" but it doesn't quite sit well with you? For the last year or so, I've been keeping tabs on a group on myspace that is petitioning against ol' Tom's advertisements. You know the ones, the True advertisements, Match, MateOne, and a handful of horror movie
sequels. Sure, I wouldn't mind if Myspace used a little bit more sophisticated advertisements, but I don't think a group with 87,000 people and a man pointing his finger is going to cut it.

Even with a group of 87,000 people, that is only %.005 of the MySpace user-base. You would probably have better luck talking to a State representative about ad filtering in real life, than to go up against the giant with a small number. Yeah, Spartans did it, but they were bad-A. This leads me to believe it's really just a power trip for the group leader. A group of 87,000 people is braggable, but it probably isn't even close to Tom's yearly income. If that 87,000 were political leaders and otherwise important people, you may have luck, unfortunately it's just a bunch of 16 year old Billys and Sallys.

The group also seems to have a brutal circle with their agenda, sucking people in and keeping them there. First of all, none of them are keen on the idea of quitting MySpace. Actually, the hero of the group calls you a loser if you quit, I quote from his mini-faq:
'Myspace is free so if you can't tolerate the advertising
leave.'
TRUTH: If you believe this you have no backbone! You are like a
piece of rubber in the water. You are like a wave tossed in the sea. Don't be
a loser and run away from indecency! - Jesse Connors

"Don't be a loser and run away from indecency?".... Would you rather have me embrace it? Wait a sec. I thought Myspace was a website and not real life. It's a Social Network, the scum of the Internet. It is the epitome of fabricated relationships. I do not understand how removing the temptation makes you a loser. Here's a segment from one of the most heroic stories in the bible:

Genesis 39
6a Now Joseph was well-built and handsome,
7 and after a while his master's wife took notice
of Joseph and said, "Come to bed with me!" 10 And
though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her
or even be with her.

11 One day he went into the house to
attend to his duties, and none of the household servants was inside.
12 She caught him by his cloak and said, "Come
to bed with me!" But he left his cloak in her hand and ran out of the
house.

So I guess by those standards, Joseph was a loser? I bet Joseph didn't have MySpace. In this part of the story, he stuck up for what he believed, and when the going got tough, he ran. He ran because he knew he was not big enough to overcome by normal means. I cannot stress enough that it is not cowardly to egress from a situation that is larger than yourself. But in
Jesse's example, you are a good for nothing, lowdown, piece of crap for quitting a social network. ....okay.

Jesse also does not endorse the use of Ad blocking software. There is software readily available that simply blocks ALL advertisements on the Internets. I think it's pretty genius stuff. You don't have to look at True ads anymore, and the Internet magically gets ridiculously fast. Here's what big Jesse has to say about these.
[Tom Change The Advertising] *does not* indorse the use of ad
blocking software or browsers. Why? Well, advertisers pay big money to sites
like MySpace to reach their users. If everyone blocks the ads, advertisers
will stop paying that big money and sites like MySpace (which cost big money
to run) will have to charge users or simply shut down.

Ok, here's the deal. MySpace is NOT going to shut down. No way, no how. Not until a more popular method of social networking emerges. Even if their entire user-base used ad blocking software, they would still have text ads (by Google) that still display, just can't get around those. Secondly, they wouldn't make the user pay. That would be the equivalent of shooting
themselves in the foot. What would they do? They would probably try different advertisers until there is something that users can settle with. If everyone blocks ads, True will stop paying big money. NO WAY!!! This again, makes me feel like Jesse is bypassing a convenient, acceptable method of ad riddance for creating a false battle to make his name more popular.

Alright, alright, so what exactly am I getting at? The motives seem really weird with this group. Absolutely messed up. There is no war. There is no battle. Heck, I'd go as far as to say there isn't even a debate about MySpace's advertisement. First of all, I cannot stress enough that
MySpace is just a social network. That is all it is and you are a bad example of human if your life and relationships with others depend on it. Also, MySpace is not subjecting you to view their ads. This is a personal issue for you to decide. If you have an issue with the ads, find means to bypass it (up yours, Tom!!! heh heh!) or just quit MySpace entirely.

Our society has enough problems in real life, if you want to make a real difference, get out there and live outstandingly. Turn heads, make people wonder what they stand for. You don't need to make a statement to be heard. You don't need a direct response from a person to know they listened. Jesus showed what he stood for by actions. The only time he was vocally offensive
was against corrupt religious leaders and against corruption under his Father's name. Otherwise he spoke to people through actions and in a loving manner, which in turn, actually made people want to know what he had that they needed.

Just my side of things, however. Maybe I'm off my rocker. If you would like more information on Jesse's ministry, please visit http://www.tomchangetheadvertising.com/. Buy a shirt while you are at it.



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Tags: Archive_Blogger, Christianity, Jesse Connors, Myspace, Petitions



Chicago

Is awesome. We are having a great time and good food. w00t. Also, I love my new wifey a lot!!!! I'll try and get pics up sooooon.

Tags: Old_MySpace



Corporate Charity

"I bought a Limited Edition Red Ipod Nano AND $10.00 went to help save Aids victims!"

Is it just me, or does anyone else find that really messed up? I've been getting really sick of seeing charitable acts through corporations. Hear me out on this one. I believe charities are great and I am seriously looking into giving more of my time and money to such things. There is nothing better than helping another person out. However, I don't think we should have to buy products to donate to struggling people. Nor do I think we should buy a product specifically because they are supporting a cause.

Let's do the math here. Say you bought the Limited Edition Red Ipod Nano supporting a cure for AIDS (I hold nothing against those that own this because they wanted an ipod), attended a "Rock for Darfur" concert and bought pink m&m's and oreos for the cure to  Breast Cancer (which ironically, is on the no-no list of a good anti-cancer diet.) Though one site suggested that "Rock for Darfur" donates $1 for every $27-$37 ticket sold, I can't find any hard evidence. We'll give them the benefit of the doubt and give them $8 donation towards Darfur relief. With that added up, I hope you feel good donating $21.00 out of the $241.00 you spent on entertainment. That is about 90% spent on yourself. Is it necessary to be entertained before giving to others who really need it? I'm sorry, but it sounds like a wolf in sheep's clothing.

Again, I am very much for charity! But I would have a hard time "rocking out" and enjoying myself at a concert with the reminder that the people "I'm supporting" don't even have a home to sleep in anymore. What happened to just giving out of your own good will? Since when do we need something out of it?

On the corporate / business side, I am honestly excited when I hear a company donates a majority of their product's sale to a cause. It's awesome when they donate ALL proceeds and stuff. None of this half-ass $10 out of $200 for an ipod stuff. Then it seems promotional. Like they are sending their customers a vibe of satisfaction if they buy a special version of a product that symbolizes their generosity. In my perspective, I have a feeling that Apple is benefiting more from their Red Ipod than what the AIDS research organization they are donating to is.

Really, this blog is more on a personal level, however. Bottom line is, we need to be less selfish. We don't need anything in return for donating. It's not authentic giving if you are expecting something out of the deal. It's easier than ever to wire money to an organization without the help of Frito-Lay or Energizer Batteries. This is all a reminder to myself, too. I need to donate more, time and money. I'm actually glad I'm a little pizzed. There is importance to charity.

If you think I'm off my rocker, I'd like to hear from you. nick@nickdavis.org


Tags: Old_MySpace



Oh MySpace

You are so dead to me. wtf. Like, I don't even need to delete my account again to prove a point (which was awesome on my part). I can't go more than two profiles away without running into a scene kid with Panic! at the disco playing on their page. Also, Myspace is like the new geocities, if you think about it. Crappy animated gifs all over, annoying text, stupid phrases and a conglomorant of sub-par movie quotes.


Tags: Old_MySpace



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New Years Resolutions

1.